Welcome to Season 2, Episode 5 of the Selma on Leadership podcast. In this episode I am excited to have my sweet husband Rodney and my co-host Kristen McCall join me as we discuss the many differences between men and women. Understanding how you and your spouse are different will help you experience God’s design for intimacy in your marriage.
In this episode you will learn:
- The top needs of men and women
- How to immediately tell if a husband feels respected and a wife feels loved
- Why our differences mean we have the opportunity to grow in intimacy
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“Our needs in marriage do change. That’s why the opportunity to keep working on communication and understanding is a beautiful thing. You never run out of opportunity to learn each other and to share that learning together.”
“Men need to make love in order to feel loved. Women need to feel love in order to make love.”
“What I would challenge you as couples to do is have the joy of learning each other. No matter what stage your marriage is in, you have something to learn about your spouse. Taking the time just to explore dreams and goals and begin to unpack the needs that each of you have. It’s powerful when you do that in your marriage. It will create that intimacy in the way that God intended.”
You can download a complete transcription of the episode here.
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